“I’m from Kheng Buli, a quiet village with few homes scattered across the hills. As a child, I never got the chance to study. We were short of hands at home, and farm work came first. Even now, I regret not getting an education.

At 20, I met my husband, who served in the Army. We had seven children—four boys and three girls. Sadly, five passed away. Only my eldest son and daughter survived. Later, my husband also passed away due to age and illness. Life since then has been full of hardship.When our village needed a new head, no one stepped up. So they asked me. I never saw myself as a leader, but I agreed. At the district meeting, I realized I was the only woman among all the village heads. I was nervous, but I spoke up. I shared our struggles.
To our surprise, our concerns were heard. Her Highness Ashi Sonam Choden granted us Kidu. She also reminded us, especially the women, that we are no less than anyone else. That we must stand up and speak for ourselves. Her words gave me strength.

I kept showing up. I raised our issues, attended meetings, and made sure our village was not forgotten. Bit by bit, change came. We now have roads, electricity, and water. I still remember walking long distances just to fetch drinking water. Life is much easier now.

I always encourage our youth, especially girls, to take part in local leadership. I never imagined I would lead, but I did—and it made a difference. I’m proud I was able to help.
All this progress, we owe to His Majesty and the Royal Family. Their care has transformed our lives. Kheng Buli is still remote, but now it feels connected—and hopeful.”
This story is from our project “Stories from the Mountain, 2022” supported by Helvetas Intercooperation Office in Bhutan and International IDEA.